How do you tolerate a repeat offender?

First Offence:
You being at least half an hour late on 80% of our appointments.

Second Offence:
YOU ASKED ME OUT, and when I sms you to remind you of our appointment, you tell me, "Sorry, I don't feeling like eating anymore."

Third Offence:
You asking for my notes, I lent it to you out of friendship, you not picking up my call and cite me lame-ass reason ["I was sleeping"] and the same morning when I asked for my notes back for the exam on the next day, you could tell me you went with your other friend to god knows where but you can't return my notes when I'm urgently looking for it. And I'm only one block away from you.

Fourth Offence:
You tell me the night before you wanna go and have breakfast at 8am, I woke up early in the morning when I could've slept in on a rainy morning. And when I called you, you didn't pick up. So I bathed and came back, and called you again. No answer. Sms your other friend to ask what time to meet up. She said you're still sleeping.


How do you get over this?

Me?

I looked over the first offence.

I blogged about the second offence but I didn't tell it in your face.

I showed you I was displeased after your third offence, but I kept quiet about it.

I sms you telling you how I feel. You said I was being oversensitive.

There is only so much a person can take. You hurt my feelings. I hope you're happy.

You said you were hurt when I said I was stupid to believe in you again and again. Please realise when I put my trust in someone and all I have is some lame-ass excuse in exchange for my understanding, there is only so many times I can take it before I totally tune out to your "explanations".

You said that I saw you as a friend who is happy hurting other people. Why else would you do this to me so many times? And would a real friend to this to another friend?

Do you understand my frustrations? Do you know what's happening on this side?

All this only shows one thing. You do not have any respect for other people's time or feeling. I hope you know you have more than once single-handedly ruined my day.

You happy?